Warm the pot: Set a large, wide pot or deep skillet over medium heat. Add olive oil and let it shimmer.
Sauté aromatics: Add onion with a pinch of salt. Cook 3–4 minutes until softened and translucent.
Stir in garlic and red pepper flakes; cook 30–45 seconds until fragrant.
Add tomatoes and seasoning: Pour in crushed tomatoes. Stir in oregano, a good pinch of salt, and black pepper. Simmer 2 minutes to meld.
Add liquid and pasta: Pour in 3 cups water or broth and bring to a gentle boil.
Add the pasta and stir immediately to prevent sticking.
Simmer and stir: Reduce to a steady simmer. Cook uncovered, stirring every 1–2 minutes to keep pasta from clumping. If the sauce gets too thick before the pasta is tender, add more hot water, 1/4 cup at a time.
Taste for balance: When pasta is al dente (about 10–12 minutes, depending on shape), taste the sauce.
If it’s too acidic, add a pinch of sugar or a few drops of balsamic. Adjust salt and pepper.
Finish with herbs and cheese: Turn off heat. Stir in chopped basil or parsley and a drizzle of olive oil.
Let the pasta rest 1–2 minutes to thicken slightly.
Serve: Twirl into bowls and top with freshly grated Parmesan. Add more herbs and a crack of pepper if you like.